Category: Date night

3 At Home Date Night Ideas For The Winter

I don’t know where you live, but it is cold here in Texas right now. Surprisingly enough, we’ve had to run our fireplace quite a bit this week. I thought it would be fun to give you a few ideas of sexy date night ideas for these long winter nights.

1. Snuggle Date

Invite your spouse to a night of snuggling. Make up a basket of warm items you can cozy up with. Put in a blanket, socks, pj’s, and hot chocolate.

Include fun things to do in the basket as well. Choose a fun movie that you will both enjoy. Of course, the top pics would include a movie that has a romance story, whether it is a comedy or drama.

Also, you can add a few packages of hot chocolate and other snacks to enjoy while you watch the movie. To really make this date night sexy, get undressed and snuggle under the covers towards the end of the movie. It will help build anticipation for activities to come afterward.

2. Enjoy Dinner In Front of the Fireplace

Light the fire and spread out blankets and pillows on the floor. If you do not have a fireplace, do the same thing in front of your Christmas tree or some soft lighting. You can even  

Put together a simple menu that you and your spouse can eat while sitting on the floor together. To make it more comfortable, place the pillows up against a wall or couches so that you both have a way to recline while eating.

Want to kick it up a notch? Make the night sexier by wearing lingerie or something revealing. Focus your conversation on sex or something sultry. It will make the night even more exciting.

3. Make Smores

If you do not have a fire indoors, you can build one outside that you can huddle around. The night sky and blazing flames are sure to give you the environment you need to have a romantic evening.

If you can, roast a few marshmallows and feed them to each other. I once saw that you can actually roast them over a candle flame. Not sure if it would actually work, but you can try!

Sexy date nights are so easy in the winter. Snuggling and cuddling in front of the fire and warm glowing lights is so much fun. Of course, don’t forget to take off your clothes at some point and enjoy some naked snuggling.

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30 Steamy Questions to Ask Your Spouse

We are huge advocates of asking intentional questions to get great conversations going. We also believe it is highly beneficial to talk about sex. Yes, it can be intimidating to get the conversations of sex started, but with the right questions you will be more at ease.

Here are 5 steamy questions to get you started-

  1. What’s your favorite way to get in the mood?
  2. Do You Like Me To Talk While We Are Making Love?
  3. What is Your Idea of Hot Foreplay?
  4. What’s your favorite part of my naked body?
  5. What can I do to serve you better in our love life?

If you want all 30 of the sexy questions, you can get the printable through the link below.

30 Steamy Questions to Ask Your Spouse

Other things on my mind this week:

Long Distance Relationship Date Ideas

20 Questions For Your Next Date Night

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You Need a Sex Date

I’m a huge advocate of dating in your marriage. Dating is a time where you and your spouse can come together to focus on one another. Of course, you have to make the commitment that you are going to put away your phones and spend the time talking about things other than your responsibilities.

There are many types of dates you can incorporate into your marriage. I think that sex dates is definitely one of those.

What is a Sex Date?

Basically, a sex date is a time when you and your spouse are going to spend the time having sex. I know it can seem a bit daunting to schedule a couple hours to be intimate, but this can be a lot of fun.

When you block out this much time to have sex with one another, you are going to have time to be adventurous. It can be hard to try new things if you are on limited time every time you are intimate.

What to Do on a Sex Date

To have a successful night with one another, you need to put together a plan. It would be good to discuss your expectations ahead of time. Knowing what the other has in mind for the date will help you have a better experience.

Here’s a few ideas for your sex date.

Dine in Lingerie or the Nude


Just because you plan to enjoy physical intimacy with one another, doesn’t mean you can’t eat. If you have the ability, you can have dinner for two while dressed in something sexy or nothing at all.

Have Sexy Conversations

Whether you are having a meal together or not, steer your conversations to sex. Here are a few prompts that you can use to get yourselves in the mood.

  1. What did you think the first time you saw me naked?
  2. What was the best part of having sex the first time?
  3. How do you think we have matured in our sex life from the beginning?
  4. What position would you like to try tonight?
  5. Describe to me your favorite part of my body in detail.
  6. If you could kiss any part of my body right this second, what would it be?
  7. What does it feel like to orgasm?

Talking about these things will get you in the mood, as well as help you both learn more about your sexual preferences.

Play a Bedroom Game


One of the reasons that Austin and I have created so many bedroom games, is we realize how beneficial they are. When you have cards that give your foreplay prompts, it helps you enjoy your intimacy. For one thing, you don’t have to try and figure out what you want to do, which takes a lot of pressure off.

The other great thing about bedroom games, the prompts can take you outside of your comfort zone. What’s written on the cards may not be things you’ve tried before.

These are my favorite bedroom games-

Try a Different Position

There are so many different sex positions that you can try during your date night. I would suggest that you pull up a few ideas and try more than one. My favorite place to get sex position ideas is at Christian Friendly Sex Positions.

Dance in The Nude

Put on some music that you can dance to. Either start with your clothes off, or take them off as you go. This is a good way to enjoy your time together.

These are a few of the things you can do on your sex date together. After a night like this, you will feel re-connected.

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