Do you feel like you are never in the mood to have sex? Maybe your spouse seems to experience this. Either way, when sexual needs aren’t being met in the marriage, it can put a lot of stress and strain on the relationship.
If you are struggling in this area, I’ve got two suggestions for you to try-
1. Tell yourself you want to have sex
Sex is for you, your spouse, and ultimately the health of your marriage. You have sexual needs and so does your spouse. Maybe you haven’t allowed yourself to really explore physical intimacy. It could be that past hurts are holding you back.
Changing your mindset is the #1 thing you can do to boost your libido. If you tell yourself you want to be intimate and that it is going to feel great, you give yourself a better chance.
2. Plan and initiate the encounter
Another great way to get yourself in the mood is to plan the night of passion. Being pro-active about physical intimacy will increase your chances of arousal when it is time to be together. As anticipation builds, your body will respond better.
These are just two ways you can boost your libido, but there is so much more you can do. I really love this course that Sheila from To Love Honor and Vacuum put together. It is called Boost Your Libido. Here’s what she covers inside the course.
- What is Libido?
- Making Sexy a Good Thing! (And dealing with sexual baggage)
- Why Multi-Tasking is Bad for Your Libido
- Don’t Overthink It!
- Making Hormones Your Friend
- Your Body Matters. Just Not the Way You Think!
- Feeling Comfortable in Your Skin
- When Sex Doesn’t Feel that Great
- Becoming a Sexually Confident Woman
- Why Emotional Vulnerability is Sexy!
If you haven’t heard of the Ultimate Homemaking Bundle before, I’ve got great news, Sheila’s course is currently part of this bundle. What does that mean for you? Well, it means that you can Sheila’s course plus 100 other ebooks and course for the same price you’d normally pay for The Boost Your Libido course.
I was soooo excited when I saw that Sheila was offering the course in this bundle. What an amazing deal. I’ve been wanting to take the course myself for a while now.
You can check it out through the link below.
My other top pick out of this bundle comes from The Dating Divas. They have included their 52 date night printables. That is a date night for every week of the year. What I love about their products is that they plan the entire date night for you. All you need to do is execute it.
I really wanted to get one of Austin’s and my products in this bundle, but we missed the deadline because we were moving. For that reason, if you purchase the bundle, just email me and let me know. I’ll be happy to send out one the pdf version of one of our ebooks to you. You can choose from the Creative Conversation Starters or Sexy Truth or Dare for your next date night.
The other 3 marriage focused resources are:
Rekindling Romance Kit- 7 Ideas to Help Reignite the Spark
Romantic Conversation Starters- Great Dates With Your Mate
Making Big Life Changes Together
If you have any questions about the bundle or any of the resources, be sure to hit reply on this email and I’ll answer you.