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I’ll be honest, I hate referring to anything in marriage as dirty. I know that people are aware of what dirty talk is, which is why I titled this the way I did. However, Austin and I like to call it a bedroom language.
We are big believers in developing a bedroom language that is a set of private words that are only exchanged between you and your spouse. Some of these words may be ones that are traditionally seen as cuss words or vulgar language. That is not to say that using these words has to be off limits with your spouse if you both agree that it is ok.
Listen to what I have to say about dirty talk on this Facebook Live video.
Dirty Talk Worksheet
I’ve put together a worksheet that you can download and print off to go over with your spouse. Answer these questions together so that you can develop your own bedroom language. Figure out together what works for you and what doesn’t.
If either of you are uncomfortable with certain words or phrases, be sure to avoid them. The thing about a bedroom language is that is should turn you on and make you feel sexy- not degraded or guilty.
Also, feel free to read more about what I have to say on this topic over at Love Hope Adventure. I talk about whether or not this is something that you should do in your marriage.